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Spring Wish List March 30, 2011

Ugh. As much as I love Spring, I hate the wanty-wanty’s that I get such an awful case of. Because when I do the old closet switcher-oo, from Winter to Spring I am made painfully aware of how tired everything is looking and just how badly in need of clothing refreshment I am. I am a jeans girl. Even in summer (I just switch to white), so fortunately I don’t have to get too crazy…I just look for great tops and great shoes and of course the accessories to tie it all together. Granted, I have a serious obsession with designer jeans (they fit better, I swear!) I have really skinny legs and the right fit actually gives the illusion that they have a little shape to them. That’s worth the expense right? My fave brands are as follows: william rast, seven for all mankind (they’ve updated their fit and it’s much better now), rock and republic, hudson, true religion, citizens for humanity (same thing,,,these didn’t used to work for me but something has changed.) I like the low-rise, boot cut styles best and a little spandex is good too.

So the tops I am loving right now do the little drape-y thing across the front…like these at Garnet Hill

Loki Top by Velvet
$78.00

Go to Velvet’s site…they have tons of great stuff! (http://velvet-tees.com/)

Michael Stars is awesome too…http://www.michaelstars.com/ and they have some of the same drape-style necklines as
well as dolman styles which I am also a fan of.

I have the top below in three colors and LOVE it. It’s actually by Bella (and looks just like the more expensive brands).  It’s a company we order some of our wholesale stuff from…

lightweight relaxed long sleeve dolman tee

$30.00
The best part is the price!
I love BCBG too and you can get lucky sometimes and find it at the MAXX…

I need a bathing suit but not sure what I want…I have dogeared a few catalog pages but can’t bring myself to pull the trigger. I have NEVER enjoyed the whole bathing suit process but this summer I am PLANNING (I say this every summer) to get my tail outa this office and spend some time at the pool with my poor deprived kiddos. That means I may need to retire my 5-year old (okay, they may actually be seven now) bathing suits. So there’s this one at Sundance that I like…

 

Don’t you love how now you have to buy the top and the bottom like two totally different swimsuits and they each cost double what the whole suit USED to cost!
The trouble with this one is the color. I am sort of fair, so not crazy about an almost-black suit…

I also sort of like some of the ones at Athleta…but my gosh, It may just be these women’s bodies that makes me like these suits…they could sell a burlap sack. Yep, this is the kind of body I covet…athletic. I am long and lanky (and mom, I KNOW I should be thankful…I KNOW I KNOW). But find me ONE girl who wouldn’t change a whole buncha stuff about their appearance–especially their BODY. (Can you believe my mother told me I was too old to be worried what I look like? HELLLLO. I’m not dead yet. I care. Arrest me.)

I love this bohemian print…

and yep. I’m a big nerd. I like to wear the little shorts so I can get up and do what I need to do without wondering what the rear view is looking like…

 

Like this one too…

Look how cute the back is…

and I could do the sarong, or the shorts!

(I wasn’t kidding about these bodies, was I?)

Shoes. Ugh. Here’s my problem…I like flat sandals, but I like wedges too and I’m so TALL. Yes I know, tall is good thing to most people…and I do appreciate it SOMETIMES but I hate towering over everyone. So I want a pair of wedges that aren’t SO high…and that is a TALL order :)

Here are my go-to-shoe sites for torture purposes (meaning I usually love them ALL)

www.fryeboots.com

Except for this season ): Not loving the Spring collection at all…

Also, like to check out www.coclico.com but they are mostly CRAZY expensive, and there’s nothing there this season either that I even covet
…well, except these, sort of :) .

These are cool, but the heel is too high for me, and they are canvas which I’m not sure about…


www.anthropologie.com has cool shoes, but nope. None I have to have…do like these though…

And sometimes I look at Nordstrom…

Again…no. Semi-like these but no dice.

Got any other good site ideas? PLEASE SHARE! I really have been looking and looking and no luck whatsoever…

The good news is, I am heading to Birmingham in April and call me a liar, but that place is the shoe mecca of the universe, so I’m saving my pennies…

Onto accessories…what I really need is a purse, but I’m coming up empty on this one too. I like a slightly boho look, and I like a purse that has both a long and a short strap on it. I want a medium sized purse…not crazy big at all. I like a coffee bean colored leather or maybe peuter…
(see, this is my problem..I dream up stuff in my head and it usually doesn’t exist. I think this may mean that my worst fear is coming true…
I am getting “stuck” in some old style and the young people are moving on without me).

I’m not a girl who wants a Coach bag or any bag for that matter with a big ugly logo on it. I have found good purses at Anthropologie (and actually have a decent-sized gift card I’ve been hanging onto since Christmas, but sadly…not loving the selection right now.)

I can’t even find a picture of a purse worthy of posting…so if you read this, and you are a purse girl, PLEASE send me ideas!

As for jewelry, I like necklaces and bracelets best but am starting to get into earrings too. I “make” most of my necklaces
(meaning I go to the bead store, tell them what I want, and they make it for me :) I’ve done some earrings lately too, but bracelets?
You can’t do those justice unless you’ve got mad skilz, which I do not.

I can’t believe I’m about to give up the site where my favorite all-time cuff came from. If you are my friend and you buy one just like mine I’ll have to kill ya :)

Don’t say I never did anything nice for anybody…

http://www.liquidmetaljewelry.com/index.php?cPath=1

Phew. They don’t seem to have mine anymore…but it’s sort of like this:

I also love this one from Sundance…

You know, I’m realizing I could go on like this for days and what I’m also realizing is that it’s time to get back to work…

so we’ll revisit this subject (afterall, it never goes away…the wanty-wanty’s that is).

Meanwhile, I’m not kidding. I need help with a purse and shoes so PLEASE send me you your ideas…

 

 

AntiqQAINTed… February 18, 2011

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Older is way better.

And no I’m not talking about people. I’m fighting that one tooth and nail, but I love me some antiques. Especially family ones. And I don’t mean fancy, pricey stuff–I just like cool stuff with a story! I think that’s the key to a great house–mixing in neat old family things with more current things. A house with no character is, well…just that. Yes, I love to go into a perfectly decorated house where every detail is attended to, and all the furniture is shiny–no nics or scrapes–but these houses are not as homey as I like. And unless I bulldoze mine I’m gonna need to embrace a bunch of old stuff :)

I took a whole ton of pictures and ended up uploading them in no particular order–it took forever, so we’re stuck with it. Mama got no mo time.

So, we’re starting with a collage of old family photos.  I like to mount the old photo on TOP of ivory linen so the deckled edges and stuff show (too band they don;t make em’ like this anymore ): I did these for Henry’s nursery–gathering childhood photos from each member of the family. They are now some of my most cherished things.

Speaking of linen, I am a sucker for it. Matt’s family had lots of beautiful tea towels with amazing monograms that I keep out. Mom and I collect antique hankies too (with our initials on them). remind me and I’ll post them sometime. They are DEVINE. When I got married I found one for my mom, grandmother and mother-in-law to have during the service.

Now I have a few of these tiny chairs…this one didn’t get old in MY family but it’s gonna get older in it for sure. My mom used to frequent the antique stores in Pine Mountain, Ga. when she still lived in my hometown of Columbus, Ga.–and being the sweetheart that she is, most trips yielded something special for MOI. She picked up two of these when I was decorating Henry’s nursery. Later  I painted this one robin’s egg blue and the kids sit in front of the warm vent in the morning to put on their shoes or to give Wheeler some lovin’.

I remind mom how lucky she is often, that I love this stuff as much as she does. Imagine passing all your treasures down to someone who hates old stuff! She sent me this precious vintage valentine this year.

Most of you know that my husband is an archaeologist. He is a stickler about preserving and archiving, but since he’s always digging dirt he sometimes finds stuff that has no real importance. I’m sure I said that all wrong but I tried. Anyway, now the kids bring in little shards of glass and other goodies they unearth and we keep them in this grain scoop (that yes, my gifted husband carved) inside this beautiful bowl that he also made! (I think the arrowheads are replicas given to Henry–if not, we wouldn’t have been able to keep them).

For a brief time there was a consignment furniture and antique store down the street from where I live. It didn’t last long but before it got away I snagged this antique (and very primitive) meal bin (used for grains). We use it for tupperware on one side, and dog food on the other.

I bet that you’re thinking I live in an awful, musty old-lady house. In context it isn’t as old looking as all this I promise! But this post is about the old stuff so I’m staying on topic.

Anyway–these are antique kitchen utensils…some from Matt’s family and some from mine. They are on a bottom shelf in the kitchen, used to prop up cook books.

Here’s another mom-find. She literally saw this chair on the side of the road in someone’s trash. Yep–my dignified Southern Mutha went dumpster-diving. Ha.I bought a few fabric remnants, had the center  piece monogrammed and voila! an elegant side chair in the dining room. Granted it has suffered a red wine spill…but that just means another fun project someday.

Mom has also given lots of beautiful frames from our family but she has a knack for finding them in antique stores too.

This photograph was done by Michelle Miree Smith–a Birmingham photographer who does this beautiful, hand-tinted vintage stuff. I think her photos are bar-none, the most lovely there are. The little table in the picture was built by my great grandfather (is that right, mom?) and Clara is wearing a dress that was mine (mom says it was hand-me-down from one of her friends little girls but I prefer to believe that it was mine all mine.

These are on the mantle in the basement. Matt found a couple of them, and one was found by my friend Joey who does landscaping. I begged him for it and he relented (the JUMBO one). Isn’t it wonderful?

Now some things make it into the house that I’m not all that keen on (You will NEVER see the aluminum foil rooster art–don’t ask). This green PLEATHER chair belonged to Matt’s grandfather and Matt was insistent that we use it. The good news is that it’s has a cute shape so I had a linen slip cover made and conceded. The cushion feels like a hard, plastic pancake but one day I intend to change it to a fluffy down one (He won’t even notice :)

When I was writing for CityView I decided my collection of old things needed an antique typewriter. I needed to look no further than the big old barn at Matt’s parents house in New Hampshire where a myriad of treasures lie.  You won’t believe the other one I adopted…it’s coming up.

Because our house doesn’t have a guest room, we built (ha, MATT built) a murphy bed. It was MY idea but that’s as far as that goes. It is built from reclaimed lumber from a barn Matt bargained for on a dig.

The first year that we were in Tennessee I freelanced. I was doing illustration work for Stacy Claire Boyd and picking up graphic design projects. Sweet Matt found this old drafting table from UT (it was under a co-workers deck under a tarp). He bought it from him, and worked for hours on end (in secret, after I went to bed) to refinish it for Christmas. I adore this table.

I told you this typewriter wouldn’t disappoint! Have you ever seen such a thing?

I have a couple of these old metal fans, passed down in my family. I think they are the COOLEST. ha. I am sooo clever with words, no? :) Check out that antique STAPLER!

This trunk was in Matt’s parents barn. It was missing the lid, so Matt built a new one (of course he did, right?) from wood out of a ka-gillion year old barn on Gage Rd. in New Hampshire.

I got this idea out of magazine (Cottage Living I think–the saddest demise of any magazine EVER). I ordered them off ebay from two separate places and painted them. We use them at
our island as stools for the kids. Not everyone “gets” them…people try to put trash in them etc. but that’s okay, WE do.

Here’s the other little Pine Mountain chair. It used to sit atop Henry’s little wardrobe. Now they sit at the coffee table in it on the rare occasion they are allowed to take food into the living room. Hey, I have my sanity (and upholstery) to preserve. Believe it or not, I even sit in it on the weekends so I can work while I watch Jersey Shore marathons :)

This is Great Aunt Maggie’s desk. I cherish this little desk. The ink well is an heirloom too–and the lam was Matt’s grandmothers.

Victorian photographs….mom, were these from our family, or Matts? I can’t remember ):

Spectacles found in the Gage barn. Henry loves these since he wore little gold wire frames like this until he turned 10.

Great Aunt Maggie’s little autograph book…

 

The clock that I remember chiming away during my childhood…

This cool old bench sits in our mudroom…I bought it from my friend Miriam who was no longer using it.

Back in my younger days when I was single and living in my own apartment I discovered junk yards. I went crazy, hauling home old screened doors, windows. My neighbor said myapartment looked like Cracker Barrel. And I don’t think it was meant as a compliment. Most of it eventually ended up, well, back in the junk yard…but I could never part with this louvered door. The table is more Handi-Matty work. The wood for the top is from that ka-gillion year old barn in New Hampshire I told you about. Those strange cone things are hat forms that I found at an estate sale in Knoxville. If nothing else they are a conversation starter.

 

Another family frame…my favorite I think (with a Michelle Miree Smith photo of Henry)

I also love boxes. LOVE them. Mom has given me these as special gifts through the years. One holds a nutcracker set, one is an artists palette and one…well, I can’t  recall at the moment.

This is by far  my favorite tiny chair and definitely one of the things I cherish most. It belonged to my grandmothers best friend Evelyn. For the first five or six years of Henry’s life he was photographed in it for our Christmas card. I had planned to use it EVERY year for all eternity but somewhere along the way the tradition fell by the wayside. Look out though, it could be back any year now.

Mom gave me this old mirror–not sure it was a family thing or something she picked up. Sort of primitive…I love it. I also have a milking stool fetish.
I bought this one at an antique store in New Hampshire.

 

More boxes, and Matts beloved cribbage boards. He made the super rustic one and the other two are from his family.

The level is part of a greater antique tool collection that mom has gifted Matt over the years. As I’m sure you’ve gathered, he is quite the woodworker.

Matt gave me the larger box early in our relationship, and the seed box came from that estate sale I mentioned earlier.

Matt built the book case and the doors are some of those windows I dragged out of the junk yard!! t wouldn’t be complete without the National Geo’s

Matt has been collecting since he was a boy.

We have the perfect little hallway nook for most of the tools…

One of the oil cans was actually mine in art school–I forget what the stuff was called but it took adhesive off stuff.

Yes, I also love bird nests. Most years our birds return and build nests on our porch.

I KNOW mom, it needs polishing. Girl, I got bigger fish to fry. I polish it when company’s a-coming. I use this little sterling sugar dish for soap in the powder bath.

This is some sort of professional bakers stand. Mom and I got it at my favorite store in Knoxville, Michael Peters Home. I use it to store my plates.

These hang in my kitchen. The pizza oven thing came from a prop sale at Southern Progress (I worked for Cooking Light for 14 years…I think this was a Southern Living prop).

You don’t need me to tell you that mom got me the others :)

 

I just adore this watercolor. One of my mom’s best friends from childhood, mothers painted it. Did you get all that?

This breadbox was in Matt’s grandmother’s kitchen. It’s kinda ugly but we use it–it works and I dig it.

 

Sometimes Matt brings home a little treasure like this in his pocket. I’ll discover these things on top of the dryer amid receipts, coins and dust bunnies.

I love architectural remnants and started collecting them in college. My sweet friend Elizabeth gave me this one year for my birthday.

I know, I know, TOTALLY un-pc, but my mom who lives in Charleston says these things are all the rage now among the Gullah.

(The Gullah are African Americans who live in the Lowcountry region of South Carolina and Georgia, which includes both the coastal plain and the Sea Islands. Historically, the Gullah region once extended north to the Cape Fear area on the coast of North Carolina and south to the vicinity of Jacksonville on the coast of Florida; but today the Gullah area is confined to the South Carolina and Georgia Lowcountry.

This one came from Matt’s grandmother’s house after she died.

See, these things are plenty useful too :)

I have

I have a few vases that were my grandmothers…this is one of my favorites…

This old Mail Drawer is from Michael Peters Home–just right in my mudroom/foyer

There is no shortage of antique books…I come from a long line of literary fanatics and history buffs as does Matt.

Another antique tool and an excerpt from a letter  (he proposed in it!) written by my Great Great Grandfather to my Great Great Grandmother. I had a calligrapher copy it to frame and enjoy during the time that I was engaged and planning my wedding.

Some where along the way mom started a spool collection. She has since given them all to me but these were my friend Miriam’s.
When she de-cluttered her home she gave them to me.

 

More spools and a pulley that is part of the tool collection.

A milking stool from England (mom gave it to me)

Yep, another tool

More of the vases that belonged to my grandmother

This is the top of the table in the mudroom. Look closely and you’ll see the old farm symbol edged into the center…so New England! :)

My friends know me well. Karen got me these in NY. Aren’t they COOL?

More old books along with some antique printing blocks

Another stool. This one has something to do with a sewing machine…from my family. I use it in the bathroom (for the kids to brush their teeth)

 

There are so many wonderful stationers these days and most birth announcements are more cool than old-fashioned. But I went the very traditional route–Crane’s Engraved.
These are mounted on linen like the old photos.

 

Mom just gave me this (for Christmas). She got it from her favorite antique store in Charleston. Perfect for jewely and whatever else I manage to stuff in there.

 

My grandmother bought these in San Francisco when she was young. Mom and I found them in a closet…I really love them.

A lovely Gage linen

This marble topped table belonged to Grandfather, Henry Ritch Callaway. His name is inscribed on the underside. We use the table by our bed.

 

They just don’t make them like this anymore.

You may not love a tattered rug like I do…I think this one is the coolest. Bought from a shop in Birmingham, along with another one…I use them in our bedroom.

A made-to-look-old mirror (Michael Peters Home) hung with an architectural remnant given to me by my friend Elizabeth.

This old spool chest has a story. It was in my family but back in the 70′s my moms best friend Carolyn bought a farm in Alabama. The house was an old rambling structure held together mostly by dust I think. She and her family labored and toiled and made it into a home we all loved (they called it Maranatha):

Mar`a`nath´a: “Our Lord cometh;” – an expression used by St, Paul at the conclusion of his first Epistle to the Corinthians (xvi.22)

Anyway, mom gave this to Carolyn along with a few other things to help fill her farm house. When I graduated from college Carolyn gave it back to me. I use it as a jewelry box.

I coveted an old tripod lamp at Michael Peters Home for the longest…but hellllllooooo it cost a FOOOORRRTTTTTTUUUUNNE. So imagine the GIDDYNESS that ensued when I found this one in New Hampshire at a store right down the street from Matt’s parents house. It isn’t as cool as the MPH one but I think I paid $60 for it and it was already wired and everything. Then I  bought the LAMPSHADE from MPH. I felt so smart :)

 

I LOVE the photo of my grandmother, Sarah Lucille Lyon (at top) on the day she married Henry Ritch Callaway.

The photos below were taken by my friend Emily and the frame was in my family.

 

This is my ALL-TIME favorite photo…Lucille and Ritch (those are the names they used) with my MOM! (Linda Ritch Callaway)

A vintage evening bag that belonged to my grandmother. She was quite the fashionista in her day.

Check this one…pretty fab, huh?

The other COOL fan :)

This is one of those things you inherit that you are not sure what to do with. I had no place to store it and no formal living room so I upholstered it to go in our bedroom.
A little weird but we’re trying to make it work.

The childhood photos also included me and my brother Robert. These are in my bathroom. They make me smile.

Amazingly mom had a stash of games from her childhood. I framed this one and it now resides in Henry’s room.

The trunk on the bottom was purchased for my first post college apartment in Greenville, SC. It was my coffee table.

Mom gave me the one on top around the same time. I had intended to paint it and line it with fabric but it never happened.

I was born in England (We lived in the Cotswolds). Mom framed this cloth map…maybe it was a tea towel or table cloth–not sure?)
anyway–I dug it out of the basement and hung it in Henry’s room.

 

This is a handmade rag rug from Matt’s grandmothers house (she was one month shy of 100 when she died). The rug is made from old nylons that were dyed. It was so dirty that I really couldn’t tell how colorful it was–but I knew it was a keeper. I had it cleaned and WOW. I love it–perfect in Henry’s room.

This pillow was made from vintage linens (a tablecloth and a Callaway hankie). The hand-tatted lace was made by a great great somebody in my family.

This is in Clara’s room.

Okay, so I forgot to focus but you get the gist…the families engraved baby cups…so sweet in Clara’s room.

more old books and my most treasured trinkets. Growing up I collected angels and these are the only ones still on display.

Oh my. They are so dear. Check out moms old girl scout handbook :)

These hooks were in my bedroom as a child and now they are in Clara’s

The sterling tray holds little notes from my moms birth (and yep that safety pin sealed her cloth diaper–or maybe mine? Not sure on that one.) Anyway, this was my moms idea (borrowed from Martha perhaps).

and still remains in Clara’s room.

A treasure trove…trinkets of mine, my moms, a few antique finds purchased for Henry’s nursery, sterling baby spoons…

 

and WHAT? I have come to the end! More than you bargained for right? Maybe I am exempt from posting for a day or tow, ’cause I’m EXHAUSTED. Plus, I have WORK to do.

Don’t know about you, but I sure did enjoy my walk down memory lane!

 

Randomness… February 9, 2011

I’m not sure why I torture myself in this way but I get a little carried away with the kids Valentine’s. I know I’m supposed to  let THEM pick them out, and work on them and every year I say to myself “LET IT GO, KATHRYN” and then somehow it happens again. So here are Clara’s in progress…


Henry isn;t allowed to bring candy (do wha???) so I am making personalized stickers for his class. I know. It’s ridiculous. But then again, so am I.

I was taking pics anyway and my stash of edamame was sitting on the table so I had to chare…this is the world’s perfect food (other than apples of course :)

YUM!

 

This is another “paint by number” (I posted one last year too). I just did outlines and the kids at Sequoyah Elementary filled in the colors. It is up for auction at their fund-raiser.
(I was given the penguin theme).

 

Here are the Save-the-Dates for Laura’s wedding. Laura is my honorary little sister…ie. babysitter, tudor, house sitter, sometime employee at Clarabelle, dog sitter and FRIEND!!!


This is my handprint impression from kindergarten and below it is my sweet Clara’s :)


 

and THIS is the ugly cuckoo clock I told you about in my last blog entry :)

A bunch of crazy-exciting stuff, huh? Okay, so maybe not so much. Now I’m gonna work on posting our HUGE water bottle sample sale and then maybe I’ll get to doing some real work.

Happy Hump Day!

 

I’m Home, I’m Home! July 11, 2010

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Amazing how much easier the 15 hour drive was sans kiddos. Much as I love them (and miss them already) it was nice not to referee and waitress the whole way. A few last pics…

boy oh boy were they gooood.

 

Last Day in Maine… July 9, 2010

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Yesterday was a foggy one so Cindy and I went exploring with our cameras. So many wonderful colors and textures everywhere you look. Poor Tim (my bro-in-law) jumped off the peer and burst his eardrum, so we are headed back early so he can go to the hospital. Terrible way to end the week ): But the rest was just about good enough to get him through it.

No time for commentary on photos but will try at least to post them…

 

Rock of All Ages July 8, 2010

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No one can say we aren’t industrious! This chair ROCKS, no?

Inside the casa

CROSS beam

I feel a little bit like Laura Ingall’s Wilder!

 

For the Mom’s In My Life… May 9, 2010

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First to my own precious mother who against the odds and complete selflessness, raised my brother and I to know the Lord, to know the difference between right and wrong, to value friendships, to understand how important education is, how to set a table and use our manners (ha)–to wipe out the sink and offer to help at our friends houses, write thank you notes…appreciate PRETTY THINGS :) among a zillion other things–some far deeper and some just frou-frou fun, but most of all, I always knew I was loved–every minute–even when it was the tough kind. She’s my best friend, the one I think of first when it’s good news, and when it’s bad news. She believes in me with her whole heart, and can be a big mama bear if she needs to be. I love you my precious mother, as big as the whole universe and beyond.

To Bevvy who accepted me in all my southern-ness–even though I couldn’t be a farther cry from all her northern-ness. Who bore the boy who would become by life mate and raised him right. She taught him to cook like no other, and be the best father on earth. He’s faithful and loyal, he’d give his last breath to someone who needed it more than he. These traits he took from her. She’s bubbly and giggly and my darling daughter looks so much like her. Everybody loves Bevvy–and that includes me.

To my grandmother–she’s in heaven now. She was as much a parent to me as my mom, in so many ways. For every occasion she made me a precious outfit, she photographed our childhood, she taught me about our family history and left us with years of research that recorded it, she supported our family in so many ways…I loved her more than I thought possible, and I believed that without her I couldn’t go on. But she really never left. She’s in my heart and I remember her smile, her voice, as if I just spoke to her.

And to my friends who are moms–like Nena who blossomed from social butterfly, to devoted mommy like no one else I know, or Shannon, who embraced 5 children who’d lost their own mother, and loves them as if she’d witnessed their first cries of life, to Kathleen who did cartwheels with her kids in the yard, and Kathy who sews the most delicate, beautiful heirloom dresses and finds humor in every situation, to Caroline who will brag to anyone who will listen about her darling boy–the one who is perfectly polite, athletic and crazy smart–all if it completely true and thanks to her immense love for him, to Amy who yells the loudest on the side lines and spends her life making sure her children are happy and involved, to all of the Elizabeth’s in my life, two with three boys each, and the other with her gorgeous girl and boy–all of them dedicated to raising wonderful, well-rounded kiddos. There’s Cindy–whose girls love of nature and art mimic her own–her gift of creativity is theirs. To Monty, with her quiet way, who savors every second she has with her boys (four of them!) to Kate who accepts and loves her children  just as they are (and they are awesome) and keeps a sense of humor at all times, to my sweet friend Jama who isn’t afraid to scooter with her girls even if it means getting hurt, or Jamie who’ll rise at 7:30 and go hard all day from soccer, to horses to dance and back and again, to Sarah who knows the fear of a little life in jeopardy, and the power of faith (who has three, perfect, healthy children now), to Margaret, who nurtured a little one, and loved her enough for 12 lifetimes, compressed into a few short years; she holds her memory dear–she is testament to us all, that through faith we can persevere. To Becky who wasn’t sure motherhood was in the cards but was blessed in God’s perfect timing with a baby girl who is  loved to bits. Gosh…I could go on for days…all of my mom-friends are precious and we all learn from each other, we build each other up, we back each other up…If you’re reading this and I failed to mention you…please know that while I was blessed by motherhood, I was also delivered a mommy-brain, and with that comes spotty memory…trust me, I celebrate you too!

Finally to Henry and Clara who turned me from completely selfish, to at least a little bit less so. Who make a day doing nothing a perfect day, because they are there to make me laugh, to make me think, to force me to grow, to the uncomfortable learning situations, to the coziest moments of tenderness spent with each of them.  Neither of them arrived without a fight, but thank God these were the two that were for keeps. Their senses of humor I adore, their earnestness in all they do. Their big hearts and smiles…I am so proud that God chose me to mother them, and pray I can do it in a way that is pleasing to Him.

It’s the biggest, most important job any of us will ever have. It can be thankless…and yes, our kids will be embarrased by us, they’ll infuriate us and test us, they’ll exhaust us and drain our bank accounts, they’ll make us cry, and worry us sick…but would we trade it for peace and tranquility, endless funds and late mornings in bed? For sport cars over mommy vans,  (clean cars over WRAPPERS EVERYWHERE), one load of laundry per week, versus 7-8…you get it…and the answer  of course, is NO WAY. It’s that unconditional thing, and it’s forever.

Happy Mother’s Day! xoxo

Kathryn

 

So very, very thankful… November 29, 2009

Filed under: Kat's Favorite Things,Life at Kat's House — clarabelleandthehen @ 10:23 pm


 

The First Five. April 1, 2009

Filed under: Birthday Wishes,Kat's Favorite Things,Life at Kat's House — clarabelleandthehen @ 1:20 pm

If you know me well, you know that I had no greater aspiration in life than to have a daughter. We hoped/planned to have two children, so after my son Henry was born, we knew we had but one last chance for a girl (although I think there’s a good chance our family would be larger had we not gotten the girl with number two). At that first ultrasound, we were told that baby number two was another boy. Yes, I admit, I cried. A dream was gone, but soon I embraced my sweet new baby boy and grew excited knowing that this was the perfect plan for our family. We named him Holt. Henry & Holt….the combo had a nice ring to it. But towards the end of the pregnancy we had quite a surprise. Holt wasn’t a boy after all. And I do believe the moment I learned this was the giddiest moment of my life. That very day I went out a purchased the first of many (I mean MANY) pink outfits for my GIRL.

I had always told my beloved grandmother that I would name my daughter after her. Her name was Sarah Lucille Callaway. We would name this baby Sarah Callaway. But my grandmother didn’t live to meet the great grand daughter she would have adored. And by the time our girl came along I had pored through our family genealogy even further and discovered the name Clara. I fell in love with the name instantly and decided my grandmother would surely give her blessing no matter what we named our daughter (and the Clara in question was her favorite aunt), so we combined the two names…and named our baby girl Clara Callaway. In my mind, the most precious girl on earth.

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Clara’s first birthday was Easter weekend and deliciously frilly and fussy. Nana came for her party as well as brand new friends from our neighborhood (we had only lived in Knoxville for about 6 months.)
Funny enough, I actually flew out that afternoon to Los Angeles to meet with folks about what was to become my t-shirt line!

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She had a little polka dotted punch cake from Magpies, and butterfly shaped cookies…

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And then before we could blink she was 2…

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It may have been pushing it a bit to have a formal tea party for a two year old, but miss clara was the picture of perfect etiquette and decorum! We had a Spring lunch of fruit, chicken salad and cheese straws…

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We used great grandmother sarah callaway’s rosebud china, and great grandma Gage’s lace tablecloth. This is a bad picture, but I painted a tea set too, just for miss priss which they are using (needless to say, that teaset now contains lots of glue).

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Miss Priss had a big piece of pink cake. Her guests had petit fores and drank iced pink lemonaid!

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This is the birthday duck. He comes out every year for Clara’s bday. The little rosebud place card holders were also great grandmothers. We even brought out the sterling and crystal!

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Guests took home little bunny baskets filled with old fashioned candies.
It was a memorable day indeed.

Then another year passed…

And she was 3.

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Maggie the mannequin greeted guests at the door.

The cake was much cuter before the long car ride home from the bakers home who lived in the middle of timbuktu, then sliding out of the box and
into my lap, and melting.

The whole fairy shebang was planned for outside and it
turned out to be FREEZING cold so the fairy costumes were stuffed full with turtlenecks and thicks tights.

But guess what? We still had a wonderful day!

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We made cookie “wands”, planted flowers. painted faces and sprinkled fairy dust!

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Yes, I realize it looks more like torture! Ha

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fairy dust…

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The fave gift…her first pair of crocs!

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Four came much too soon…

Determined she would be a dancer, we gave it our all…

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Poor baby…woke up feeling a little under the weather…not the way the birthday princess ought to feel. But she rallied (just barely) and took it all in. She could still end up thinking it was pretty cool to have a real true live ballerina dancing just for her.

Not a great pic of the cake…I was too flustered to figure out flash etc. It was raspberry chocolate (I ordered vanilla), with white chocolate shavings all over. The ballerina fell over not once, but twice and was sure to land in two different spots to insure maximum floral destruction.

(I CANNOT FIGURE OUT why the type is blue and underlined…sorry.)

This is Caitie, our lovely ballerina who danced for Clara.

She was so beautiful to watch and danced to the music from Enchanted.

We made ballerina paper dolls…

and ate chocolate cake. YUM.

After cake, we played “pin the tutu on the ballerina”

and our newly minted  four-year old had a happy, happy day.

Wow. Now,  here we are..the eve of FIVE. Mommy must admit, it is bittersweet. My baby is no longer a baby. Every day I wish to freeze her in place, to hold her on my hip again, to feel her downy soft baby hair…but then I can’t wait to see her grow into a young girl either…she is precious, now and forever. I love my girl more than I can express with words.

We’ll be going to the zoo (the same thing big brother did for his 5th, and his 1st here in Knoxville. In fact, this was his invite, except we pinked it up for Clara…

Clara is more excited than I’ve ever seen her. We have been talking birthday for MONTHS…Nana is coming of course…and it will be a three-day celebration. One at school, one at the zoo, and the “real” birthday will be spent at home with family.

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She has another special outfit for her school party on Friday, but she’ll wear this to the zoo…and of course, I’ll post the whole whirlwind affair right here for posterity!

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New! Stainless Fridge Clips…Brilliant! January 23, 2009

These remarkable little clips actually stick to stainless! I bought a couple of them last year and love them so much I decided I had to share them with you! They are not yet on the site, but you can order them right here! Just email me: kathryn@katinthehatdesigns.com And coming soon, notepads and frames that do the same magical thing!fridge-clips

 

 
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